Air Express Milk
By Connie Cochran Toole
Chicago IL USA
From NEW BEGINNINGS, Vol. 17 No. 4, July-August 2000, pp. 124-125
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My son Tucker Christopher Toole was born July 15, 1998, at a healthy 8 pounds, 4 ounces. I had decided to breastfeed based on all of the information I read and the fact that my milk was the best I could offer my newborn child. I must admit that I was excited about nursing. Giving my child nourishment from my body seemed like the best thing in the world. However, it was quite difficult in the beginning. I don't know if it was the frustration of trying to get Tucker to latch on properly, or if it was because I was still recovering from the delivery, or both. I became a little discouraged because I thought maybe I wouldn't be able to nurse after all. I received a lot of support from mothers who had breastfed. In the first days after birth, I didn't know if I was coming or going. However on the tenth day everything changed. I suddenly felt no pain and Tucker was latching on perfectly. I thought, "This is terrific!"
The next breastfeeding hurdle we faced was when I had to return to work. After much discussion with my husband, we both reluctantly agreed that I would return to work after eight weeks. I really wasn't ready at that point and I missed my baby a lot. However, I developed a great nursing and pumping schedule at work. I was able to nurse my son during my lunch hour because his caregiver lived only a few blocks away from my job. My milk supply was great because I made sure I ate properly and Tucker nursed frequently during the evenings. Everything was going smoothly until, after only two weeks back, I was told I would have to travel for work to attend a conference in Arlington, Virginia. I wondered if I was ready for this challenge. My son would only be ten weeks old. I wanted to continue nursing but wondered how we both would manage it. The first thing I did was call an LLL Leader. She was friendly and nice and gave me information to help me maintain breastfeeding while I was away for business. I felt somewhat relieved.
I was not prepared emotionally to leave my baby for the first time. I cried the entire ride to the airport with co-workers looking on with sympathy. There was nothing anyone could say to comfort me. I had pumped enough milk to last for the first day or so, and then my husband was going to have to give Tucker formula. I wanted to avoid formula, so when I checked in to the hotel, I requested a refrigerator. The hotel clerk asked if it was for medical purposes. I explained I needed it to store milk for my baby and the hotel didn't charge for the use of the refrigerator. I worked hard to make time to pump while attending the conference. I used a Medela Pump-in-Style pump and it worked very well. After two days of pumping, I had 56 ounces of milk stored in the refrigerator. When I spoke with my husband on the phone, he said he was running out of milk quickly. I began calling airlines to see if I could find a flight that was leaving the next morning so I could ship my milk home and my husband could pick it up. I found a flight leaving early the next morning and arranged to take the hotel shuttle to the airport. I arrived at the airport with plenty of time for them to check my precious package. I thought to myself, "When this guy checks my box and sees the contents he's going to wonder why in the heck am I sending milk." He didn't ask a thing. I had stored my milk in two 32-ounce plastic containers and put them in a thermal bag with ice packs. It worked great. My husband picked the package up from the airport two hours later and our baby had the milk an hour after that. I was relieved that Tucker was able to continue receiving my milk, since I wasn't there to be with him. I continued to pump and was able to bring home another 56 ounces of milk. I missed my little one tremendously, (and my husband too) but with the help of an LLL Leader, I was able to plan effectively and continue breastfeeding my little one.
For working mothers, don't give up hope. Just remember if there's a will, there's a way! If anyone had told me a year ago that I would be putting breast milk on a plane to send to my husband to feed our baby while I was out of town, I would not have believed them. You find as a parent there isn't anything you wouldn't do for your child.