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Weaning During Pregnancy

Stephanie Chacon
Rochester NY USA
From NEW BEGINNINGS, Vol. 17 No. 4, July-August 2000, pg. 125

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I had my first child at age 35 despite the fact that I had decided years earlier in genetics class to have all my children before 30. But my husband and I didn't have our first date until my 30th birthday. What could I do?

My menstrual cycle resumed when my daughter was around 20 months old, and I was anxious to complete my desired two-child family. The problem was that my daughter was still nursing frequently and seemed to need it very much.

I had friends in La Leche League who had or were nursing while pregnant and there were even tales of tandem nursing. It seemed as if I could do it and besides, does a 20-month-old really need to nurse? I became pregnant quickly and to my surprise found that I couldn't tolerate nursing any more. It hurt, but it wasn't only that. It had become annoying, like fingernails on a chalk board. My daughter was not ready to wean and we went through a very difficult time. Even though I know I was at the end of my tolerance at the time, I still regret her early weaning and wonder if some of her difficult behaviors might not have been so persistent if she had been able to nurse longer.

I think that if I had to do it over I would tell myself that the child that I already had was more important than ideas about desired child spacing or age limitations. I couldn't know ahead of time how I would respond to nursing while pregnant or how my child would respond to weaning. I will always wonder whether things would have worked out more smoothly if we had waited a few more months to attempt a pregnancy. The years of nursing pass by very quickly. My second child weaned himself at around two-and-a-half years. It was a joy to watch him do it himself.

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